If You Want To Be A Feminist...

Then you need to know what to think feministly. Fortunately, there are resources to tell you what to think:

Shakesville offers both dozens of mini-sermons on what to think as well as "rape culture 101"

And here is the Microaggressions Project.

Using these two resources will help you be politically correct in your thought and speech. Good luck, and remember to stay inside the box to avoid attacks from your own peeps.